February 6, 2008

You Will Live Into Your Story…

This morning, I threw on sweats and headed out into the dawn hills high above the Pacific, where I live.

I hike hard. I hike fast. I carry handweights. I do stop to take in the views.

And I always take along brilliant company.

Often it's David Deida. His audios, which will be available to the world in about a month.

Sometimes it's interviews I've done with dating "gurus." Or books on tape: 4 Hour Workweek. Freakonomics. Words That Work, by Frank Luntz. Pema Chedron. Chris Rock. Dave Attell.

This morning, it was Harv Eker. He of "The Millionaire Mind."

I've met they guy and he is a marketing genius. He's created a huge organization teaching people how to reprogram their internal programs so they can open themselves and act toward financial success.

I'm all for THAT!

Anyway, something he said on this audio caught my attention regarding success with women.

Because we are doing the same thing in this community - reprogramming how we think, how we carry ourselves, how we express ourselves to women - so that we attract GREAT women effortlessly, naturally and steadily…

… until we find that one amazing woman who makes our life better in virtually every way.

If that's what you eventually want.

So what ol' Harv said was this…

He was talking about the stories we grow up with around money. About the stories we tell ourselves about whether we deserve to be wealthy or not. Whether we think we are worth 50 grand a year or 500 grand a year or 5 million a year.

The line that caught my attention, and should catch yours is this:

"You will live into your story."

What he means is this…

Simply, if you tell yourself you're only worth 25G a year, you will probably never exceed that.

If your story is that you are a creative, dynamic, learning, positive, success-creating individual - you are FAR more likely to live your life into THAT narrative.

What is the story you are telling yourself about women?

If I've learned one thing since my divorce and zero-self esteem moment then, is that YOU GET TO CREATE YOUR LIFE!

And it starts with what story you tell yourself about yourself.

About what you deserve.

About what kind of happiness you deserve.

About what kind of WOMEN you deserve.

I did two years of therapy after my divorce to exorcise the demons a destructive marriage implanted in my self-narrative.

I did workshops with guys like Satyen Raja at http://www.GrantLikes.com/satyen (go to his Sex Passion and Enlightenment workshops!!! - tell them I sent you for the super discount).

I did Landmark type stuff.

I read and re-read David Deida's books until they crumbled back into pulp. http://www.GrantLikes.com/deidaevents
And I dated hoards of women, always trading up, up and up into the most loving, baggage-free, enlightened feminine goddesses that this fertile earth has nourished.

And through it all - I CHANGED MY INNER NARRATIVE of who I was and what I deserved.

I will be leading some circles on this later this year.

For now…

Please get to David D's Transformation Seminar in April.

I talk to him all the time and he will be doing GREAT work - actual exercises, not just talking about it - on EXACTLY this issue.

When you meet that AMAZING girl - you'd better be ready INSIDE to know you are worth her - and that she is worth you.

If you can get to David's D's Transformation Seminar - please come join me there.

Here's where to sign up:

http://www.ManTransformationLive.com

Tickets go on sale TODAY.

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Live into the best, most expansive, most successful, most love-filled, love-creating, adventurous, hot, sexy, happy life you can.